Graf 9

When I go back to when I fist thought about getting married. I have always wanted a small wedding. I have also wanted it to be outside. My parents have a a falls behind there house. I have always playing down there and have always wanted to get married down there it is so nice. The water gets very high up on the rocks and it is so nice down there. The guy I'm with loves it down at the falls too. Before we had kids we would go down all the time to go fishing. I told him how I would love to get married down there and he loved the idea. We talked about going to a church but we don't really go to church and we both like to be outside and love the falls. When the water is very high you can sit on a rock under the falls and the water goes over you. It is very rocky, so under the water there are all kinds of different rocks and they can be very sharp to. The rocks follow the river down and up the side of it. At our house if we go out side at night we can hear the falls. It is so nice. My biggest question is how do you start to plan for something like this. I'm only doing it once so I want ever thing to be right but simple to. Like how do you set a date? When should you get stuff for it like the dress? I also want to know why and how things change after being married? If you have been with someone for so long and have everything together. I have a lot of friends get married but like a year or two latter there not together any more. Who do you invite? when you have a big family but just want the wedding to be simple also. The catered or not how do you cook for ever one? What to have for food? Who will do the pictures? Who will be in the wedding? Besides my sisters and kids